If you have a ladylike public persona but behind closed doors you let explicit phrases tumble from your mouth, the contradiction gives him a sexy charge of excitement.
It should come as no surprise that guys love dirty talk. Here are some of the reasons as to why men love dirty talk.
1. It’s an arousing surprise.
If you have a ladylike public persona but behind closed doors you let explicit phrases tumble from your mouth, the contradiction gives him a sexy charge of excitement. Even if you aren’t the pinnacle of propriety, seeing you transform into a naughty vixen gives him a titillating thrill. This heightens his senses and makes everything that much more arousing for him.
2. He feels like a sex-god.
When you let loose with a string of moans and screams mixed with a variety of sexy play-by-plays and dirty directives, you show him just how much you appreciate what he is doing to you.
3. Your confidence attracts him.
A woman who has the self-confidence to use dirty phrases to get what she wants in bed is downright seductive. Men are drawn to women who aren’t afraid to express themselves sexually. Generally, your use of dirty talk clues him in that you are far from uptight or inhibited.
4. It shows you are totally in the moment.
Enthusiasm is such a huge turn-on for men. A quiet partner can be misunderstood as a bored or distracted partner, and that can put a big damper on the sexy mood. When you talk dirty, you are 100% present and in the moment. That level of engagement with what’s happening between you serves to validate that he’s pleasing you.